Category: Authoritarian
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“I’ll Pray For You”
Honestly, is there anything more condescending? “What? No! That’s not how I mean it!” you might protest if you’ve uttered this phrase. Listen, I understand what you might be going for (“I care about you”) but that’s rarely how it comes across to the people that you feel the need to say it to. Tell…
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How I Recovered My Life After Growing Up In A Cult
If you believe that you are in a cult and need help getting out, here are some resources that may help you. If you are in physical danger, call 911. Support Network ~ Am I In A Cult? ~ Grow Up Fundamentalist? “Oh my god,” I whispered to my dark room. “I was raised in…
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Why I Left IBLP, Part 3
Read Parts 1 and 2 here. My mom and I showed up at the Pre-Excel room and asked for a meeting with Sara, Rachel and Emily. They agreed to sit down with us behind the stage curtain, and this time my mom did the talking. “Leona told me what happened, and she does not have…
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Highly-Controlled Friendships
One of the big reasons I loved attending IBLP‘s annual family homeschooling conference year after year (the Advanced Training Institute) was the freedom I had to pursue friendships with practically anyone I met there. I was a very friendly child, if a little awkward and out of practice due to limited social opportunities. In the…